有個人人都聽過的問題,現在"同化"後變成:你男友和你父親遇溺,你只能救一個,你會救那一個?
故事的主角作出了決定,救了其中一位.原來另一位沒有死去,但他卻因為主角沒有選擇他而心存恨意.主角也因為自己救不了另外的一位而一直有一遺憾在心.
人與人之間的仇恨可能因為要選擇而開始.人心的遺憾也可能因此而生.
人與人之間的仇恨可能因為要選擇而開始.人心的遺憾也可能因此而生.
一生沒有惹恨,沒有遺憾的人真是十分幸運.我卻沒有這份福氣…
昨晚忽然撞見一個意想不到會再遇見的他…
There’s a classic question that everyone’s heard of. After I "G-lify" it, it question becomes: Your boyfriend and your father are drowning, which one will you save?
The hero of the story made his decision and saved one of them. It turns out that the other managed to survive. Because he was not chosen he felt very bitter toward the hero. The hero, because he couldn’t save the other one, carried a big sense of regret in his heart.
Hatred between humans may have been caused by the need to choose. Regrets may have begun the same way.
Anyone who’s never been hated or had any regrets are truly fortunate. I don’t have that kind of fortune on my side…
Last night I suddenly bumped into someone I never thought I’d see again…
KenT the Author's Ravings 
Dear Dofin,This is Darren from Hong Kong. Got to know your site from Yam. Nice to to meet you. I think the situations are different. One is father and bf decision. The other is bf and bf. I don\’t want to comment anyone\’s decision to save his bf and let his father fall into the sea. It\’s hard. Whoever you saved can be right or wrong. But if your decision is made between a bf and another guy. It\’s easier to judge. Isn\’t it?? What I want to say is what makes this situation happen is only because the change of one\’s heart. Sorry, being too serious.. haha….I remember a song called the Ghost of You, \’would like to share with you. The lyrics go like this ….
I threw out the photographs
Like yesterdays flowers
I tried to erase the past
But it won\’t go away
I wake in the morning
And try to be brave
But it\’s hard to move on
When the ghost of you stays
It\’s hard to move on
When the ghost of you stays
The ghost of you stays….Happy to read your blog. Go on.Cheers.Darren
Hi Darren,Firstly, let me apologize for not replying sooner. I get very few comment here and I\’ve been lazy with my updates so tonight\’s really the first time I saw your comment.Thanks for writing.I think the point isn\’t about regrets as much as hatred. Hatred may happen because one has to make a choice. Whatever the choice is another party will suffer and the suffered party will hate the chooser for not making the other choice.