失落的重要性 The importance of feeling down

這兩天因為某些別人的事另我心情很差.對我來說很是罕有,因為我看事物一般都比較正面.而我又怕不開心,所以我一遇到可能會另我不快的事情便會盡量避開.
 
今次失落使我有些領會.因為不開心我會回想以前的開心日子,覺得當時的日子更加可愛.
 
記得唐伯虎點秋香裡有一段情節,唐伯虎第一眼見秋香時覺得她不外如事,可是當他再見她身邊的人,有了比較後他便覺秋香十分出眾.戲裡說更靚的鮮花也須綠葉襯托.可能這些失落的日子便是往日開心的日子的綠葉.
 
可惜往事只能回味.
 
Recently I’ve been feeling very down because of someone else’s affair. This is really rare for me because I tend to look at things positively. I also hate to be unhappy so everytime I’m in a situation where I’m heading for sadness I’ll just to dodge it.
 
This round of blues has given me some insight…Becuase I’m not happy now I try to think of the previous happy times and those times somehow appear to be prettier than ever.
 
I remember this chinese comedy 唐伯虎點秋香 has this gag: The main character sees this supposedly beautiful girl for the first time but he is not imporessed. When he sees her again in a crowd of very ugly people he suddenly feels like she’s an angel. The gag points out the fact that beauty is relative. Maybe these times of sadness makes the happy times relatively happier.
 
 

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